Beware of paying attention to or going back to what you once were, when God wants you to be something you've never been... - Oswald Chambers

Monday, May 21, 2012

Hi, My Name Is (Insert Name Here), and I'm Addicted To Facebook.

I deactivated my Facebook account over the weekend. I debated about announcing the fact that I deactivated the account, mainly because I don't want to draw attention to it, but I think it is important to talk about why I deactivated it in the first place.
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Over the past month or so I can honestly say Facebook has been consuming too much of my time. I recently added my own company onto Facebook and as a result, I would spend more time than I intended to surfing around others pictures, status updates, wall posts and needless to say, it was becoming a huge distraction for me! Both at work and at home. Then it dawned on me, Facebook has always been a distraction. Not to mention, it began to creep me out how many of my "friends" weren't actually "friends" -ifyaknowwhatimean.

Facebook was also inadvertently making me feel things such as...

  • Jealous.
  • Inferior.
  • Judgmental.
  • Accusing.
  • Superior.
It is IMPOSSIBLE to not judge people when you're on Facebook. Whether you're pitying someone for even daring to post about how hungover they are on a Tuesday or you're totally jealous of your friend from high school that just received an engagement ring the size of Texas (seriously? Why her? She's not even that pretty. OMG.)... And the whole cycle continues in a sick, sick way - a never-ending stream of gossip and smack talk.

Enough already.

All those characteristics described above are all characteristics I would never use to describe myself, but I instantly take on all of them just by signing onto Facebook and surfing my newsfeed.

I've handed the admin status of my company's Facebook over to our summer intern for the time being and I'm sure I'll be forced to reactivate the account at some point to access my company page after he is gone, but until then, check you later, Facebook. I'm done letting you consume my life and my character.

4 comments:

  1. These are all very valid points.. But I love it for sharing! Like.. sharing two adorable boys.. You'll always have to email me pics now! But it's true how addicting it is.. Cassie and I were just talking about this and she disabled it from her phone because it's just SO EASY to check it like a gazillion times a day! And for what!? It's ridiculous.. so i'm definately trying not to check it as often..

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  2. I KNOW - I disabled it from my phone a few months ago and I know it's nice for sharing, but I'm happy to share information about my family via email and even regular mail with friends and family that are close to us! I just didn't like the idea anymore of sharing with people I'm not close to and seriously wouldn't care if I never saw again. Life is such an open book on Facebook and I'm not an open book in my personal life, so it just wasn't fitting anymore I guess??

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  3. OH MY GOODNESS. I thought I was going crazy! I was trying to show Garrett the picture of Colt and Jake with matching haircuts- couldn't find it. I chucked my iPhone and complained about how stupid my app has been lately! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

    Can we snail mail!? I love snail mail. My friend Sarah (i talk about her on my blog a lot)- is my only snail mail pen pal and it's SO FUN! We always mail each other random shit... letters, coupons, mixed cd's, art projects, yummy treats, magazines.. it's so fun!

    We know how I feel about Facebook- but I've embraced it lately- because I need my blog as a source of income cuz Garrett and I are pooooooor. :)

    I love you and I hate Facebook. And, I'm giong to randomly text you funny pictures of you know who- because judging is fun in moderation! HAHA

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    1. This made me laugh out loud!! You're not going crazy and I love that your prego hormones threw your iPhone across the room. Yes, let's snail mail. I LOVE getting mail!! And yes, please send those pictures because that's just too hilarious not to share and she puts it up there to be judged... Right? ;)

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